He’s 73 years old and just used all his savings to buy a $35,000 motorcycle… instead of helping me when I needed it.

My 73-year-old dad just spent all his retirement money on a $35,000 Harley Davidson instead of helping me pay off my student loans. He even called it his “last big adventure.”

He worked for 50 years in a messy motorcycle repair shop—always covered in grease, smelling like oil and smoke, and embarrassing me with his old tattoos and worn-out leather vest. Now that he’s sold the shop, I thought he’d use the money to do something more meaningful—like help me get out of debt or put money toward the condo I’ve been looking at. But instead, he says buying this motorcycle is his way of “investing in his happiness.”

I talked to him about it yesterday, and he just laughed. He said, “Sweetheart, at my age, all crises are end-of-life crises.” Like that’s supposed to excuse it. Just because I’m 42 doesn’t mean he’s off the hook. I told him I need the money more—my life is still ahead of me, and he’s planning to ride that bike until he dies on some empty road.

All my friends agree—if parents can help their kids, they should. But instead, my dad keeps going on about how he feels “the call of the open road” and how he’s planned a three-month trip across the country to visit places he’s always wanted to see—“before it’s too late.”

Too late for what? Too late to be a father who puts his daughter first? I had to cancel my trip to the Bahamas because I’m so stressed about money, and he gets to chase some dream. It’s not fair. I’m stuck in a low-paying assistant manager job, buried in bills, while he’s wasting money that could help my future.

So, I made a choice. If he wasn’t going to give me the money, I’d try to take it. I had the paperwork. I had a plan. I was ready to make him see how serious this was.

The day before he was set to leave, I went to his house with a folder full of documents and a desperate plan to guilt him—or maybe even pressure him legally—into doing what I thought was the right thing.

I found him in the garage, carefully cleaning that Harley like it was something precious. When he saw me, he said, “Didn’t think you liked the smell of gas.”

I didn’t say anything. I just handed him the folder.

He barely looked at it before setting it down.

“Gonna sue your old man, Laney?” he asked with a small smile.

“I just want what’s fair,” I snapped. “You always said family comes first. What kind of dad leaves his daughter behind to chase some dream?”

He stood up slowly, wiped his hands on a rag, and said, “Come here. I want to show you something.”

I let out a sigh and followed him into the house. He went to the closet and pulled down an old, worn-out shoebox.

Inside were receipts—lots of them. Not for motorcycle stuff, but for doctor visits, ballet lessons, school supplies… even college tuition.

“I sold my truck the year you started college,” he said quietly. “Walked to work for eight months so I could pay for your books and rent.”

I looked at him, speechless.

“You think I still owe you,” he said. “But Laney, I already gave you everything I had. And I’d do it all over again. But now… I finally have a little something left. And this time, it’s for me.”

Then he handed me a photo—me as a six-year-old, sitting on his old motorcycle, smiling like I was the happiest kid in the world.

“She used to love bikes,” he said, smiling.